There is an awful lot of dating advice around at the moment. It can seem fairly bewildering to work your way through it all. Which advice do you take? Well, I would say that you should take the advice that feels most right for you. After all, most of the people giving the advice are just people like you. They have tried some things out, and some of those things have worked, so they share it with you, and then that becomes their advice.
I have found the best tip is the following: Be Yourself. If you just be yourself, and don't try to be anyone else, to try to deceive your partner or yourself, you are much more likely to find someone who will be satisfying to you as a long-term partner.